The Past is the Past
There comes a point in every person's life when he or she parts ways with someone: ex, friend and anyone in between.
Upon first meeting this person, there's a sweet Start but usually in a years time you start to realize that the relationship no longer brings any particular value to your life and is perhaps, even detrimental.
Many reasons we tend to hold on and a common one is based on how long we have known them. Fear is another reason why we can't move on. There's the fear of being alone and not being able to find someone else; fear of the hate and tension that will ensue; fear of regret once someone is gone. Sometimes, things are better left as mere memories.there's now too much pressure and expectation in the air to recreate what you both once had. Instead, hold on to and cherish the beautiful memories, but move forward. Be thankful for what the relationship brought you both and taught you.
If you read my MOTIVATION MONDAY'S: MY TOP 5 TO START DOING FOR YOU then you have some sort of an idea of the person isn't bringing something significant to your life, not treating you how you'd like or isn't the type of person you want him or her to be, it's pretty clear..
1. Things Aren't the Same..
People simply grow a part, which is perfectly normal.you want different things, no longer understand and no longer connect like it was back in high school - mindsets have changed. It's difficult to hold on, but remember that you're destined to meet different people along your journey who will bring you happiness, sorrow, pain and joy - the world is a massive place with many different people to meet and connect with to teach you even more things.
2. Trust and Loyalty
Trust and loyalty are the foundation of any relationship that being a friendship or significant other. If you have even the slightest doubts then you should be asking yourself why is this person even in your life? Be in the company of someone who is proud to have you in his or her life and will remind you of how important you are to them.
3. Walk Away to Damaging
You deserve the very best in everything and you should set high standards for yourself - never settle. If the person is miserable to be around, always puts you down, bully's you in any way shape or form then it's best to say good-bye.
if someone is not paying attention to you, not caring about you, embarrassing you in front of others, throws you "under the bus", making you question yourself, guilt trips you, or belittling you, or doesn't give you enough credit. remove the negativity from your life! You don't have to deal with it! Respect yourself enough to be able to walk away.
4. Agree to Disagree
It is hard to make a relationship work if you can't ever agree or see each other's perspectives. You have to be willing to accommodate for each other's needs whether it's giving up some sleep to be at a college graduation or if you're going out for dinner and a movie while one pays for the dinner and the other the movie. - to get 100% you gotta give 100%
5. The Supreme Art of War is to Subdue the Enemy Without Fighting.
if you feel as though you're the only one putting in effort, time and love, into something then you should probably re-think some things on why you are even still hanging around.
Find someone who is genuine to you, believes in you, challenges you, adores you, and loves you for the beauty that is within you.
There you have it, five (5) reasons to let go. Time is very precious and we are limited to what we have, so cherish it and make the best of your days - Live each day as it's your last. If you really enjoyed this post then throw it below to the comments! If you really enjoyed it then share it on your facebook so someone else can be motivated!
Born on September 22nd, 1986 and raised in Sullivan, Missouri