1. Start spending time with the right people.
These are the people you love and would do absolutely anything you can to help them whether that be advise, connections or lending money. These are the people who love you for you and your weird ass shenanigans. These are the people who take you out of your comfort zone even though you hate it and hate them for it but you also know that it's healthy for you.These are the people who make you feel like embracing and embody who you want to be.
2. Start making your own happiness a priority.
Your needs matter! I am one to talk because i love helping others and it makes me feel so happy to see someone else happy because I did something to change their life! However, you gotta take care of you too. If you aren't happy how the heck can you help someone else be happy? If you aren't well established then how do you expect to help someone else get established? So make sure you are in a place in your life where you are happy. No hate. Clear mind. Once your needs are met, you are most likely to help someone even more than what you could have.
3. Start being yourself, genuinely and proudly.
Trying to be anyone else is a waste of the person you are - BE youself. Be the person you know yourself to be – the best version of you – on your terms. Above all, be true to YOU, If you are yourself then the right people will come into your life, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it.
4. Start noticing and living in the present.
Right now is a miracle. Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you. life isn't guaranteed, we're currently dying as you read this, we are..really. We could die of a random stroke. Heart attack. we could slip in the shower and hit our head just right. Stop dwelling on what did or didn’t happen in the past. No body cares anymore if something happened (5) five years ago or yesterday for that matter. Let go and let live. Why dwell on things you can't change now? IF it's out of your control then all you can do is just move and put that focus on new things.
5. Love yourself
I feel You need to learn to love yourself before others. How can you love someone else if you don't even love yourself? The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. You must love who you are or no one else will. Remember to appreciate where you are and what you already have. Be the change you want to see in the world.
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Born on September 22nd, 1986 and raised in Sullivan, Missouri